Barista can’t possibly understand why people insist on judging other people. “You should never judge until you’ve walked in their shoes.”
Barista thinks this is sooooooooo boring. How dare you judge someone? How the hell dare you?
Barista also hates the fact that people would prefer their friends to go through exactly what they’re going through, if not more. Is that fairness? I don’t think so. Think it’s ego and fear. If you choose and want to be strong, then be strong without complaining about it. And if you need help, then ask for it, don’t demand or expect it. Nobody’s as “strong” or “smart” or “beautiful” as you… Some are actually weak, dumb and ugly and would like to walk this planet too. Go figure.
Barista needs a massage.
Barista thinks that when you give love, or do something for someone, you should NEVER EVER expect something in return. Nobody’s forcing you do anything. You choose to.
And to conclude, Barista wants y’all to know that you’re all snakes, not just her, and that “the more people I know, the more I like my dog” does work. Not in all cases though. For there are people who manage to keep their angelic side above their snake side (thank you for the thought, liberatedself). And to those people Barista bows, for they are strongest.
Barista is a coward.
Barista’s thoughts shouldn’t be associated with the owner of this website’s thoughts. They’re purely fictional. =)
hehe, I’m glad you could put the thought to good use.
This body has some memory relation to almost being forced to try and experience some state in which a friend is going through or seems to be going through but see, its weird because then its almost like they don’t take responsibility and push the experience off in expectation that they will take the burden off their individual hands. This doesn’t get rid of the suffering, but only makes it stronger because it’s like trying to deny that it exists when the feeling is there. Even knowing that, that suffering is illusion of the body, there still must be acceptance that it is present but merely don’t attach the body to it, to come to an understanding maybe.
The love part is beautifully put, this in essence is unconditional love, there should be no expectation of return love, for if there is no expectation then there is no goal, and if its aimless love then who suffers? The answer is, is that suffering no longer exists where it thought it belonged, that love merely is, and has no goal or aim. This love attracts love and grows love in others that not even they are aware of, thats what so beautiful about it. I had a post on love myself and on judgment.
I really enjoyed baristas thing on judgment, I’ve always come to say, “the second you judge someone for their concept or character, is the exact moment in which you forget to enjoy just being with that person.”
Lovely!