Today we’re bringin’ up a new cathegory… The title pretty much says it all. It will bring up dos and don’ts in several fields… Dating, style, etc. Actually, come to think of it, it might be more of a DON’T category. LOL
Also today we have a first approach.
Relationships:
DON’T… Pursue them if they speak of other men/women whilst still at the beginning of the relationship (actually that would be a good subject for a break up too). As for the speaking… What I mean is… If they say things like: Boy, that John/Jane is so hot… Get out of there as fast as you can. There’s no way in hell they’ll everlook at you as more than a friend.
DON’T try and change someone. You’ll never make it. And if you make it, they’ll always feel like you’re the one to blame for stuff.
Unless you’re a circus freak or superstar, DO initiate conversation with someone who’s been staring at you. It’s a dead give away.
If a woman’s wearing a deep cut cleavage and you’re not at the seaside/by a swimming pool, DON’T feel bad if you’ve been sneaking peeks at her puppies 
and she tells you to look at her face for a change. It means she’s simply nervous or a hypocritical biatch. When women wear such things, they want you to look at the puppies. Trust me on dis one. LOL And you could always answer the Will Smith styla… “This a club/work place/ whichever girl, why you arrive naked?”
However that doesn’t mean you should stare for hours or assume she wants something from you. Also DO feel bad when the cleavage isn’t deep cut and you’re staring. That’s simply rude.
Style:
For God’s sake, DON’T wear socks with roman sandals. As far as I’m concerned no man should even wear sandals, unless they’re roman or at least wearing a toga. But socks with sandals? That’s a crime not even kids should put up with. 
Got nothing against flip-flops, actually lurve them, on guys too. At the gym though? A total DON’T. It’s not even sissy- ish. It’s purely shit. And no. Being that comfortable at the gym isn’t trendy, really. Not even Borat would do that. And he’s as comfortable and nuts as they get.
Please, oh, please, DON’T take your child naked to the beach. After a certain age (like five or so, if not earlier) lots of kids (except for nudist kids lol) feel like crap when you make them go through that.
Also… DON’T go on the David Letterman show in yer bare feet and sing. I won’t even start saying why not or who has done it. Surely someone I won’t be remembering too soon.
So I have a question and I’ve heard this elsewhere. Its in respect of the friend zone, which a lot of guys have fallen into without realizing (including myself)
Is that lunch dates are a no-no if you are not looking for the friend zone. If you’re going to make it a date, then make it at night, and its always over dinner? I’m not sure about the dinner part as I haven’t really chose to date myself (as i don’t like the idea of expectations for a lot of reasons.) and if you were curious i could go into that for you but i’d much rather hear your opinion since you are a female and you probably have some insight into it.
So what I’m saying is maybe right a bit more on staying out of the friend zone, what things you find in men to be in a relationship and things you would cast a guy into this mystery of the “friend zone” and if there is a way to pull yourself out of it once in it.
I think there is a way, but am still in the processes of attempting it.
P.S. I wear flip flops as much as possible, but not to the gym, but to make sure my feet don’t atrophy. Using natural arch over a cast (show arch support) is not my idea of healthy feet. =P
What you’re asking is an extremely hard question, Nick. As far as I’ve heard, it’s practically impossible to get out of the friend zone. If you entered it from the start, it’s pretty much clear that it’s just how it is. If you entered it after starting a relationship, then maybe there’s chance.
Just think of it this way: Have you ever liked a girl just as a friend? Could she ever really get out of the friend zone?
Nd don’t give me… We’re men, we’d bla bla anytime. LOL
There’s this rare occassion when you can actually get out of the friend zone, but something must change dramatically in the other person’s perception of you.
However… The famous friend zone isn’t the same when none of you tried anything. I suppose the only way to find out if you can get out of the friend zone or not is for one of you to try and take things one step further.
Anyhew most people are too scared to do that. Apart from being scared of rejection, one’s scared of losing the friend zone itself. Because sometimes the other person is so great, that you really can’t afford to risk it and lose the friendship.
Oh and btw… It’s got nothing to do with lunch dates or whatever… It’s simply a state. You can find yourself talking about the Universe at their home at 5 am in the morning. If you’re in the friend zone, then that’s where you are.
Hope this made some sense.
I agree it seems almost impossible to get out of the friend zone, but I also think there are very specific gaps in which behavior changes. I’ve noticed it in a few of my relationship like its almost asking me to look down that road at that moment and see what could be, but I’ve always been too scared to probably because I didn’t know what to expect or because I was also fearful that i wasn’t ready to be in a relationship although I probably wanted one.
I definitely see your point on not trying anything together and the risk is “usually” risking the friendship but i don’t think this is at stake as much as people fear. True friends aren’t going to let something so small to mess up a completely strong and sound friendship, if you can allow something as small as that to affect something you spent so long cultivating then one needs to be more aware of themselves. It may be hard for a first couple of meetings (hard as in awkward lol) but you’ll fall back into it.
I think its possible to get out of the friend zone because as long as you are aware that you are putting someone in the friend zone the more likely you are to be able to take them out on your own accord. Now there is a difference, whether Love is there or is not there. This cannot be helped, like you said, it either is or is not there, but at some point it will be there, depending on how your growth there, sometimes it can take months and sometimes it can take years, but the friendship that blossoms into love becomes something entirely different, and strong.
And that’s romantic btw, talking about the universe, do you do this much with possible companions?
Whatever you say Nick. LOL Keep’un’dreamin’.
I’m kiddin’. 
Dreamin’ is a great thing. We must never lose that.
However you’ll never know until you ask. Pretty simple, huh? LOL Yet paradoxically hard.
As for the Universe… No. I never talk of such things. =)))))))))
lol <3